We do believe that Marriage is a sacred tradition in Indian culture and divorce is, like a taboo in our custom. Although with time, the scenario is changing like greased lightning, as the young generation is becoming more autonomous and personage.
The word Divorce means–
Dissolution of marriage, or we can say legal separation of two partners.
It’s still frowned upon in our culture. Thus it’s actually complex and needs a lot of endurance and emotional firmness on the part of both the spouses to pact with divorce.
We are still sanctified if we compare the divorce rates in India as in Western countries. If we natter about Western Countries, 50% marriages end up with annulment. In India, 1 out of 100 spouses look for divorce. But we have to agree that because of diverse economical and social changes, the divorce cases are escalating rapidly.
In our advancing society, the concept of “compromise in Marriage” is diminishing gradually, as females have become more liberated and self-governing. They are no more limited as domestic caretakers. These days the couples don’t believe in mutual compromises, the way our ancestors used to do. In our backward areas, a divorced woman undergo a lot, and children of divorcee live a difficult life; they tend to suffer the humanity scorn and sometime they spoil their lives because of the hardship they had been into.
We identify this issue with the unavoidable ache and share a little information that will help you to deal with the suffering “DIVORCE”
Remember to Change the Surname-
It’s very essential to do few changes in your life to move on, like changing surname and notifying the insurance company, banks, passport office and at work places. Not only on documents, but also publicize your name among family and friends.
Don’t Forget to Close all the Joint Accounts in Bank-
We propose taking this point really serious. It is implied that you should always keep in mind to withdraw your name from the account at the initial separation stage.
Don’t Forget the Alimony Details-
It’s very important for you to be aware of all the clauses allied to alimony in an annulment, such as- all the modes of payment, and what intervals the alimony you will be getting, etc. Also, its good to maintain an account connected to this. In case, it’s your duty to give alimony, then arrange for the compensation accordingly and take care of other things in a functional way.
Remember to Read all the Post Annulment Papers Unwearyingly-
It’s better to clear all your doubts at the early stage. Even though the attorney will explain each and every point, yet for your own satisfaction, it is important to read and understand every clause. Don’t let yourself triumph in any terrible situations, which lead you to the apologetic behavior later.
Formulate Financial Plan-
It is very important for all single parents to construct a monetary planning with the accountability of our children’s growth.
Counselling of your Children-
In our Indian society, it is crucial to give our children a good counselling, because it’s complicated for them to go through the expression and understand the hardship. You have to make sure that your kid is not suffering or getting affected from what people are talking.
Divorce in our society leaves woman and men mismanaged and unsecured. While women get fiscally affected, men get difficulties in supervising the household responsibilities. Thus dealing with separation, requires a lot of good advice, positivism, emotional and financial stability, and most importantly patience.
To all the blessed out couples- is it so easy to disregard the vows which you took?
Can we say it’s correct that these days separation is a trend and marriage is more like a game?